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Give the Nice Guys a Chance...

Here is something interesting I was emailled this morning, it's something a guy has written to 'girls' in general by the looks. Any guys out there care to comment on what he has to say? If only all guys felt this way...

From a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. …And we don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. I’ll stop trying to convince you.
Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I’m in.
LET US PAY FOR YOU! DON'T "FEEL BAD" We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you."

(This part is so damn true, but why won't you believe it?) You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's, not all dolled up.

Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful" I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of on the other hand I’m not saying i wouldn’t like it ether ; )

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT… …
Someone who will honor your morals… …
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest… …
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes… …
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel… …
Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes... .and say "i love you" ......and ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

Give the nice guys a chance

1 comment:

Izak Flash Man said...

Props to the guy that wrote that. I agree with everything there.